How to Ask Out the Guy You’ve Been Silently Flirting Withby Chiara Atik on June 08, 2012
Obviously she should ask him out, yeah?
Well, she agrees, but it’s tricky to ask out a stranger at a coffee shop, because what if he says no, and what if he thinks you’re a psycho, and what if you embarrass yourself? (The risk of these things is actually pretty low, but, it’s easy to psych oneself out.)
Anyway, Anna wrote a post full of helpful tips on how to work up the nerve to ask a guy out, and it’s full of good advice, like “pretend to love yourself,” which is actually a really useful thing to do when you tend towards the self-deprecating.
So read this post, and ask out that stranger in your coffee shop. (Hopefully Anna did the same.)